Divorce and the Effects on Children

Recently I wrote an argumentative research paper about divorce and the effects on children for my English class. It has been really interesting and sad. Children are greatly affected by divorce through many ways; for example, depression and anxiety are commonly seen in children. Not only do these two aspects affect them as children, but as well as in their adult lives. Having divorced parents can be very difficult in their adult lives too because many uncomfortable situations come up in which too much stress is placed on the whole family. Often times divorced parents place stress on their children when they don’t mean to and sometimes they even do not notice it.

I think that people should think hard about their choices and take into account how it might affect others before they take action. If parents are considering divorce they should do everything they can possibly do to try and resolve the situation. Some make decisions too hastily without giving a lot of thought to their choices. Children can and will be impacted by the parents' actions so they should think twice before they act.

Parenting

Parenting---It can help us:
- Develop patience
- Teach us
- Develop inter-generational patterns
- Change our relationship with God
- Become selfless

"The purpose of parenting is to protect and prepare our children to survive and thrive in the world."

Children need Contact/Belonging

Often, some children do not receive the attention that they need growing up. To be able to meet the needs of children we need to offer affection freely! Hug, touch, and smile often. :) Also, create opportunities for the child to contribute. For example the child can help with chores, errands, and helping others. It would also be good to get the child involved with teams or clubs.

Children need LOVE. I believe that this is the most important thing we can give to a child. They need to be loved. If they do not receive the appropriate amount of attention they need then it can affect their mental growth during childhood.